Did you know that women are actually consistent in their dating behavior?
And that if a woman is even a little bit attracted to you when she first meets you, your behavior is what determines where things go from there (not your bank account, resume stats, body, etc.)?
In fact, there's a four-letter word that shows you exactly what to do and exactly what not to do at all times to make her want you: If you do what it says, she's yours...if you don't, you'll drive her away guaranteed.
We'll get to that in just a second...
First, I want to tell you about my friend Steve.
I first met Steve at a conference in his hometown of Omaha, Nebraska...
And, just a couple of years ago when he was 25, my friend Steve had a huge crush on this amazing girl named Vanessa...
He told me all about her and I even ended up meeting her after he told me his story about her.
So, yep, she's a great girl: Sexy, Smart, Fun, and Caring. She's a dental hygenist and also volunteers her time at a summer camp for kids with cancer every summer.
So, I can understand exactly why he liked her...
And, after being friends with her for months, one day Steve finally got up the courage to tell her that he liked her...
Her response after a long, uncomfortable pause:
“I'm sorry Steve...You’re such a great guy but I just don't see you that way. Don't worry though, I'm sure you’ll make some lucky woman very happy some day.”
Steve was firmly in the friend zone.
See, even though Steve is a decent-looking, pretty normal guy with a good, steady job, he just couldn't seem to make that SEXUAL connection with women that he wanted...
He didn't have any trouble making FRIENDS with men OR women...
However, he just couldn't seem to make women attracted to him or see him as a sexual being.
And, needless to say, it was very frustrating.
Sometimes, women would banish him to the friend zone right away...
Other times they would just STOP RESPONDING TO HIS TEXTS without ever explaining why.
Every once in a while, he would actually get a girl to agree to go out with him. So, they would go on a couple of dates, he would naturally start thinking things were going well with her, and then all of a sudden she would DISAPPEAR on him without explanation...
And, he even managed to get one official girlfriend back in his college days...However, she chose him and made all of the "moves..." He really had nothing to do with it.
And, of course, she broke up with him too after a few months because she said he was "too boring" and "too nice."
"What does that even mean?" He thought.
Well, it means that Steve had a serious problem: He was unable to make women FEEL STRONG EMOTIONS for him and that made it impossible for him to attract women or keep them interested in him.
Now, being friend-zoned by Vanessa was even more frustrating than usual...
Because, as we talked about already, Vanessa's amazing.
Steve really thought she could be "the one..."
And, to make matters WORSE, Steve saw Vanessa out with a confirmed CRIMINAL just a few days after she put him, a good guy, into the dreaded friend zone (true story).
"Why would a girl like that go out with a guy like that when I'm interested in her?!" He asked himself.
And it was a great question that spurred him into ACTION.
So, Steve finally got angry enough that he decided to handle this part of his life once and for all:
"I HAVE TO solve this attracting women thing or DIE trying..." He said to himself that night.
At that exact moment, Steve committed himself to learning the art of attracting women no matter the cost...
So, he started looking for anyone who could teach him anything about dating and attracting women.