First of all, you should ALWAYS ask for a woman’s phone number the first time you talk to her if you’re interested in her AT ALL…
So, asking her for her number any way you can (or giving her your number) is always better than not asking for it.
However, whenever you can make something feel more natural or make it smoother when it comes to attracting women, it greatly improves your chances of success and makes it easier and less awkward for you at the same time…
So, today I’m going to share the EASIEST, SMOOTHEST way to get a woman’s number with you…
Imagine this:
You’re hitting it off with a woman you just met…
You’re really clicking and you can really feel the mutual interest and tension building between you…
Then, right in the middle of your conversation, you get interrupted.
Maybe her friends come and lead her away to another table…
Maybe your friends come and join you…
Or, maybe you’re at a conference and the keynote speaker starts talking…
Etc.
When you’re in a situation like this, the momentum you’re building with her gets STOPPED dead in its tracks.
And, if you try to strike up another conversation with her later just so you can get her number after an interruption like this:
1. It’s much more awkward than if the interruption never happened…
2. You can easily start thinking about it too much and psych yourself out…
3. You feel more nervous because now you’re chasing her a little bit and you’re “trying to get something” from her, so both of you sense that your perceived value is dropping.
So, what should you do in a situation like this?
Well, that’s exactly what happened to one of my top clients recently (and he has EXCELLENT attraction skills…so this can happen to ANY guy).
And what did I tell him to do next time?
The EASIEST, SMOOTHEST way to get her number…
Simple: The easiest, least awkward, most natural, most under-the-radar, smoothest way to get a woman’s number is this:
Open your phone to the “add contacts” screen, select “add contact” and then simply hand your phone to her with that screen open.
Then, look away a little bit instead of watching her put her number in your phone to ease the pressure even more.
That’s it.
And, trust me, she knows exactly what to do (I won’t even mention that you’re communicating all kinds of good things by doing this, including assuming that she’ll give you her number and that it’s not a big deal)…
The best part: You don’t have to SAY anything at all.
So, you can use this technique even if you’re in a group setting or you have to be quiet without making things uncomfortable for anyone.
Or, if she moved to another area of the venue where you were talking to her, you can just go up to her and casually hand her your phone like this without interrupting her group or making things awkward.
This is my absolute favorite way to get a woman’s number.
I like it almost as much as you giving her your number…
So, try this technique out the next time you meet a woman you’re attracted to because it makes everything easier, smoother, less awkward, and more natural for both of you.
Until next time my friend…
Cheers,
Jim
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