How to END a BAD DATE…

Have you ever met up with a woman you met online who ended up looking nothing like her profile pics?

Or had a great conversation on a date with a woman only to discover that she’s not the woman you thought she was on the next date?

Or decided you weren’t interested in a woman AT ALL for one reason or another on a date and it made you really want to get out of there ASAP?

While we usually focus on how to attract a woman around here, in this article we’ll talk about how to handle it when you don’t want to continue a date with a woman because the way you handle that situation highlights the way a man who’s successful with women behaves in general.

How to END a BAD DATE…

So how do you actually handle a situation like this?

Well, first of all, if you’re using any online dating sites or apps, you should expect some women not to look like their photos…

And, if you’ve only had one or two conversations with a woman, she might not be as awesome as you think…

That’s why you should always:

Ask a woman to meet you somewhere that doesn’t require a lot of investment for the first date.

Like grabbing coffee, meeting at a happy hour, getting a smoothie, etc.

That way, if you’re hitting it off with her, you can offer to take a walk with your drink or go to one more location for a few more minutes if you want.

And, if you’re not feeling it, you can easily get out of there quickly without making it awkward.

Secondly, you should always finish the date (you can make it shorter if you want) and then just stop contacting her…

You don’t want to tell her directly that you don’t like the way she looks, insult her, leave abruptly, or do anything strange…

You just want to be polite, say goodbye at the end, and then never contact her again.

So, if you meet her for happy hour, have ONE drink with her for like 30-40 minutes, work on your banter skills or something like that if you want, and then just say, “Hey, it was really nice meeting you but I have to go now. Have a good night.” =)

And then get out of there and move on with your life.

Make your exit as soon as you can, but do it as smoothly as possible.

And how does that apply to women you do want to attract?

Great question.

Here’s how:

First of all, you want to ALWAYS act the same way no matter how interested you are in a woman with the exception that you stop contacting women you’re not interested in.

You want to get used to acting the same way with a woman you’re extremely interested in as you do with a woman you’re just a little bit interested in…

Because that’s what makes you successful with the women you really want…

And a good way to practice that is to do all of the same things with a woman you end up not being interested in at all.

Except that you make the date shorter and then stop contacting her.

Just remember: When you act consistently with all women for the most part you win…

However, when you react too much to how interested you are in a woman and change your behaviors and strategies because of that, you lose.

You want to be as consistent as possible no matter what women are doing or how interested you are.

And this is a great way to practice that.

It’s the other side of the coin.

If you can be smooth with a woman you don’t want to date, it’s easier to be smooth with a woman you DO want to date.

Because then you’re just the kind of guy who handles dating situations smoothly.

It’s just who you ARE.

And handling it this way is also the most socially aware thing to do.

And secondly, remember that you want to communicate with women with your ACTIONS, not necessarily your words…

So, for example, you do NOT want to “tell a woman how you feel…”

You just want to attract her properly instead.

Make sense?

Awesome.